Friday, January 29, 2010

Muddy Kids

Nancy over at Away We Go wrote a great post about her son getting a bit muddy. She then offered a quote:

"Remember, you are not managing an inconvenience; You are raising a human being."
~ Kittie Franz

I wanted to share my comment to her with you:

Oh wow, I love the quote. There are times I've snapped at my kids and yes getting all muddy is one of the reasons. I can remember a few times snapping at preschool teachers for how filthy my kids were at pick up.

So, we decided my real problem was I didn't want the mud/dirt in the house, on the furniture and on the carpets for me to clean.

So...I always had a change of clothes and a plastic bag to put the dirty clothes in. We'd get home. They could take off the cleaner clothes without making a mess and I'd then do all the laundry. It was a win/win for all of us.

How do you handle kids covered in mud, dirt, finger paint, spaghetti sauce, etc?

Audrey :)

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Do Your Kids Cook?

Both of my girls know how to cook. They both know how to bake. They both help with dinners. Sometimes one of them will cook a whole meal.

What about your kids? Do they know how to cook? Do they like to cook? Do they help out with the cooking?

Audrey :)

Friday, January 22, 2010

Cussing

Do you cuss in front of your kids? Did your parents cuss in front of you?

When I was growing up, my dad cussed, my mom did not.

I've gone back and forth my adult life. There have been times I didn't want cuss words in front of my kids and other times I was ok with it.

What about you?

Audrey :)

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Homework

How much help do you give your kids with their homework? When my kids were super young, they really didn't ask for help. When they were older, some of what they were learning was beyond what I could help them with. So, I never really helped them too much.

As I read other blogs and posts in other communities, I read of a lot of women helping their children quite a bit with homework, even doing some of the projects and research.

What about you? How much do you help your kids with their homework? How much did your parents help you?

Audrey :)

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Bookmarks

You can turn pretty much anything into a book mark. Use a piece of construction paper as your base. Now attach movie tickets, concert tickets, Disneyland tickets etc to the construction paper. Laminate and punch a hole in the top. Attach string, ribbon or yarn and you now have a very personalized bookmark.

Audrey :)

Thursday, January 14, 2010

Do You Watch American Idol

American Idol began this week. I did not watch the first few seasons, like when Carrie Underwood was on the show. But about 3 or 4 seasons ago, my two girls got me hooked on the show. Now I watch it nightly with them. If we're not home, I tape the show.

What about you and your kids? Do you watch the show?

Audrey :)

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Tough Topic today

One of my friends is in the hospital. This happened very suddenly. Very unexpected. She has a daughter. Very few of us plan for the unexpected like this.

So...my wonderful friends and readers....do you have a plan should something happen? I know this is a tough topic...it's just really on my mind.

Audrey :)

Saturday, January 9, 2010

Volunteering with Your Teen Daughter – Quality Time Together

As some of you know, I write articles. I am not a writer. Not at all. But about 10 years ago, I was approached about turning some of my forum posts into short articles. What I found was that my life experiences were often helpful to other people. So...here's an article I submitted this past week:

Volunteering with Your Teen Daughter – Quality Time Together

Over the years, I have always looked for ways to spend quality time with both of my daughters. One idea that we love is non-profit.

There are so many ways to give to others and do it together. I’d like to share some of the ways we’ve given to non-profits while spending time together:

1. Animal shelters need volunteers. We have visited our local pound and taken dogs out for walks. What a win/win situation. The dog gets walked. We get exercise and we’re out together doing this.

2. We have a Reading for the Blind and Dyslexic here in my town. Most of what they offer are textbooks. One person reads the books while another person follows along and records. The center has a library right inside where students come and check out the recordings. So we know our efforts are helping our local community.

3. Feeding the homeless. We have a strong group here in town that gets together once a week at the shelter and feeds the homeless. We have a second group that meets once a month and hands out prepared meals right on the street. There is actually a doctor that volunteers with this group and treats those who need a doctor.

4. I have worked on mailings with both of my daughters for different non profits. Sometimes we meet at someone’s house and sometimes the mailing takes place in the non-profits office. Either way, we’re spending time together while helping the organization get their mailing out.

5. There are many organizations that ask for hand made items. We once spent an entire day crocheting small beanies for premature babies. It is a goal to be able to send out at least ten afghan squares per month to those who then assemble them and mail them out.

6. We belong to a congregation that hosts a non-profit day once a year. They offer many projects to choose from. We have always become involved either as members or leading a team if the need is there. This is something we plan for, for the entire year.

7. There are many groups that collect letters and cards to send our service men and women. Our service people love getting mail from home. Many of these men and women have not seen their families for many months. That friendly card or letter means the world to them.

Look in your own town. What non-profits exist? Where are volunteers needed? How can you and your teen daughter give to the community while spending time together? You’ll both walk away feeling great about your contributions.

Audrey :)

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Other People's Children

I read an article today that really has me puzzled. The article was written by someone who believed that some times it's ok to discipline someone else's child. She gave the example of her own child. They were at the grocery store and her son was disrespectful to her. A stranger looked at her son and said "son you should not disrespect your mother."

The writer of this article believed it was completely ok for this stranger to offer his words to her son.

What I've done is if I see a mom struggling I might tell her that I like her sweatshirt or I like the kids shoes...something that gives her a few seconds to step away from the child throwing the temper tantrum. But I've never offered my own words to the child.

What do you think? Do you say something to other people's children? How do you feel about people saying something to your children?

Audrey :)

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Personal Place Mats

On your childs next birthday, have them save all of their greeting cards. Now take those cards and arrange them on a sheet of construction paper. Take the paper to your local Kinkos and laminate. Your child now has a very personal place mat for the dinner table.

Audrey :)

Friday, January 1, 2010

Overseas

This is the 2nd time my daughter has been overseas in two years. I woke up to a really sweet email from her this morning. She left a party last night and it was snowing. As you know, we live on the central coast in California. It does not snow here. So for her, this was magical to begin 2010 with snow.

It really warms my heart that both of my daughters choose to call and email their mom and fill her in on what's happening.

What a wonderful way to start my new year.

Audrey :)